Cohousing: Designing for Connection

As a speaker at the upcoming Colorado Regional Cohousing Conference (April 20-22), David was asked to spark discussion and invite participation in a blog post. We share that below and invite you to learn more about Cohousingjoin others with similar interests, and of course join us at the conference if you are so inclined.

An Impulse to Connect

I sit here on the Pacific Coast of Mexico watching the sea awaken in the soft pastels of the changing morning light of sunrise. The waves, stirred by a night of winds from the north rise and fall, then crash into transformative white foam, obscuring the boulders that define our boundary between land and sea. It is a continuous rhythm that defines the pulse of the experience of this place. Like a beating heart driving blood through our veins, or the breath that flows in and back, out of our lungs, this repetition reminds us that we, like this planet, are alive and in tune with each other at this most basic level. We are connected. We are, in fact, one. What a beautiful reminder that we are not alone. I breathe in micro droplets of her essence with each arriving fold. I remember that I came from, and am largely made of this infinite pool.

Cohousing: Designing for Connection

David at his palapa at Los Chonchos, Mexico EcoPreserve

So what might this say about an interest in community? What do we yearn for as we go through our experience of living in a modern world? Is there an underlying call, an impulse to find connection? Where does it reside? How can we fill that void –or visit that place of belonging to something more?

We are in a time where we have more “friends,” or “likes,” or access to an infinite stream of opinions, observations, facts and fake news, but we can still feel cut off and lonely for real contact. This contact can come in various flavors, to sense of connection to nature, or what E.O. Wilson termed “biophilia” gives us an awareness of our inter-relatedness with the living planet and all of her systems and manifestations. As part of that we are deeply attracted to the other human beings that might be seen as an affinity with others. This desire to have human interaction comes by way of empathy or compassion; conversation and conviviality; or just sharing space with others so an impulse towards community is an acknowledgement that, though most of us need privacy or even quiet isolation at times, we also seek real relationship with others.

As an architect I have found these human cravings to be behind so much of what intentional space provides. Design thinking is if nothing else a way to shape our surroundings to bring balance and harmony to our internal needs and desires. Whether this is played out in the public realm, say in the ongoing design of the livable city, or in architectural spaces that bring us together, or in deeper contact with the natural cycles we are so intertwined with.

Cohousing: Designing for Connection

Paths and places for gathering at Greyrock Commons Co-Housing in Fort Collins, CO.

Cohousing: Designing for Connection

Live/work interactions at Studio Mews in Holiday Neighborhood, Boulder, CO.

As a presenter at the Colorado Regional Cohousing Conference, my intention is to share simple lessons learned over the last 40 years of designing for connection. In these examples I hope you’ll see ways to apply design to a room, a home, a neighborhood, or a city to encourage real experiential interaction. It might manifest in a co-housing community or a common house, but it might happen in the selection of a piece of furniture or a personal space of alignment. The possibilities for coming together are limitless. The impulse is built into it all!

Cohousing: Designing for Connection

Barrett Studio lunch gatherings in a Boulder Foothills home.

Cohousing: Designing for Connection

Students come together each morning at the Eagle Rock School and Professional Development Center in Estes Park, CO.

See more Barrett’s Studio projects with Co-housing components…

Greyrock Commons Cohousing

Eagle Rock School and Professional Development Center

Holiday Neighborhood

Kestrel Neighborhood

Abbey of St. Walburga